I've struck a balance between good guy to chill with and deviant to play with. Vanilla can be great and has it's place but life without kink is like food without spice. Exploring -your- kinks and figuring out what makes you tick are huge turn ons for me. That being said, attached or married women are a favorite of mine so don't be shy to say hi if you're either. I'm in an awesome and supportive open marriage. That doesn't mean you and I can't have our own thing or we'll all play together but I do have a home life that's important to me. Exploring new restaurants and finding great drinks is a favorite of mine and a great way to dig into each other. So, bonus points if you're looking for more than a bedroom romp. One last thing: I'm not here to waste our time endlessly texting, pic collecting or getting you to sext so I can get off and disappear. If we make plans, I'll be there. If we click, I'll follow up. And if we don't, I'll have the decency to let you know. I'd expect us to treat each other the way we'd hope to be.

My Ideal Person There's plenty of boxes to click on this site but you know what? I hate boxes. No one wants to be put into one so why should we start off trying to make the other fit into them?

I'm more interested in chemistry. I want us to have that spark that makes our pulse quicken and eager to see each other. That speaks volumes beyond whether you're a particular "type" or not and if the chemistry is there the fun, sex and kink will develop all on their own.

Intelligence, wit and humor are always attractive. I love a woman who's confident and knows what she deserves. Whatever your style, own it and you'll be sexy as hell - at least, that's my take.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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